Oct 31, 2019
BH014 When you have had a bad day
We all have bad days. Whether it’s due to a stressful event in our personal lives or an unexpected situation occurs at work that causes us to feel upset, worried, or otherwise stressed - we all experience moments when we think we’re prepared for just about anything, but something unexpected occurs. The question is - how do you handle bad days?
In today’s episode, I share a recent bad day experience I had at work and the strategies I used to put that situation into perspective. I discuss the importance of identifying what you know to be true about a bad experience or situation and how it can differ from the story you tell yourself in the heat of the moment. I explain the process I used to help me learn from that experience, to allow me to make better decisions in the future when a similar situation arises. I also explain why it’s critical to separate your feelings and emotions from the facts of an event and how it can change your entire perspective on a situation.
“We all have bad days. We all have situations where you think you’re prepared, and something else happens.” - Tara Humphrey
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This week on The Business of Healthcare:
- The importance of separating your feelings from the facts of a situation
- Understanding your role in a situation and the importance of identifying the areas you could have influenced
- Identifying the best-case and worst-case scenario and what you would do if they occurred
- Addressing whether your proposed actions are aligned with your personal and professional values
- Determining what you could do differently in a similar situation
Ask Yourself:
- What do you know to be true, and what is the story you’re telling yourself?
- What is your role in the situation? What is in your power to influence, and what is out of your control?
- What is the worst-case scenario, and what would you do if that happened?
- What is the best-case scenario, and what would you do if that happened?
- What do you want to do now, and are you willing to do it?
- Do your proposed actions go against your values?
- If you could turn back the clock, what would you do differently?
Resources Mentioned:
- The Chimp Paradox: The Mind Management Program to Help You Achieve Success, Confidence, and Happiness by Professor Steve Peters
- How to Have a Good Day: Harness the Power of Behavioral Science to Transform Your Working Life by Caroline Webb
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